Pamela Denise Anderson Pam comedy Blonde and Blonder alongside Denise Richards Meet the Stars Opening night The event in Pamela Anderson s life that has caused the most hoopla in the public eye was her spontaneous surprise wedding to Motley Crue drummer Tommy Lee after dating him for four days Although Pamela avoided him at first Tommy followed her down to Cancun where he eventually won her heart and they got married on the beach With the bride in a thong bikini and the groom in swimming trunks the couple proved their love by getting tattoos of each other s names on their body parts rathe anderson, contest, meet, messaging, pamela, real, sms, text